The Self-Led Woman
A Private 6-Month Immersion in Embodied Authority
For women+ who are ready to stop outsourcing their authority and lead from the deepest part of who they are.
Application required | Limited spaces each year
If you're like most of the women who come to me, you’re doing well on paper.
From the outside, your life works. You are capable. Respected. Relied upon.
You’re the one people lean on…The one who figures it out.
But somewhere along the way, strength became self-abandonment. Productivity became proof of worth. Over-functioning became normal. Responsibility became identity.
You don’t fall apart.
You just feel it in your body.
In the tightness in your chest before a big decision. In the way you rehearse conversations in your head over and over. In how hard it is to fully rest ... even when nothing is urgent.
You’re not breaking down.
You’re waking up to the fact that the version of you who built this life isn’t the one meant to lead you next.
And that realization is both liberating…and disorienting.
You’re not in crisis. You’re at a threshold.
You might say you want more confidence. Or clarity. Or space to think. Or permission to want something different.
What you actually want is to trust yourself again....
To stop second-guessing decisions you already know the answer to.
To stop asking for reassurance before backing your instincts.
To stop fixing what isn’t yours to fix.
To stop performing strength when what you need is truth.
Why I Do This Work
I’ve spent years sitting with women who were extraordinary on paper and exhausted in private.
Women leading organizations.
Families.
Movements.
Teams.
Businesses.
Women who could hold everyone else...but had quietly stopped holding themselves.
I’m not interested in making you more impressive on paper.
I’m interested in helping you return to your own authority.
To lead from the inside — not from pressure.
To become more aligned with the divine intelligence within you that has always known.
The Threshold You're In
You've mastered achievement. Now you’re being invited to master alignment.
This stage often brings grief, disorientation, and unexpected honesty about what no longer fits.
If you ignore this threshold, you won’t collapse.
You’ll simply become more successful at being someone you’ve already outgrown.
More respected.
More accomplished.
More outwardly stable.
And increasingly disconnected from your body, your truth, and your deeper authority.
That erosion is subtle.
Until your body forces the conversation you’ve been avoiding.
What Happens Inside This Immersion
Over six months, in a private and deeply held container, we dismantle the conditioning that taught you:
That being needed equals being valuable.
That slowing down means falling behind.
That boundaries are selfish.
That vulnerability makes you unreliable.
That your intuition needs validation.
We recalibrate your internal authority at the level of your nervous system...not just your mindset.
You learn to:
Trust yourself without polling the room
Separate your worth from your output
Discern what is yours to carry … and what is not
Stop absorbing projection from others
Hold boundaries without guilt or rigidity
Move from urgency into intention
Lead your life from the steady center of the divine within you
You don’t become louder. You become anchored.
Calm. Clear.
Self-led.
If this feels aligned, you don’t need to wait.
What Women Say After Six Months
Leigh, Sr. Sales Director
"I've slowed down and I'm more aware. I'm being more intentional. I'm not busy 24x7. I would've gotten sucked into the vortex of drama 6 months ago - now I can see the whole picture and trust myself to make decisions that align with my values."
Alyssa, Career Coach
"I came into coaching outwardly ‘fine,’ but inwardly exhausted and stuck. Through our work, I learned to separate my worth from what I produce and to trust my inner knowing. I lead myself differently now."
Beth, Founder Vibe Wel
"I came to Val knowing I needed to ask bigger questions and realign with my core values. Through our work, I gained awareness of patterns that were holding me back and learned how to navigate them toward true alignment. I now trust my inner guidance in a way I didn’t before."
The Container
This is not a program you move through. It’s a private recalibration you live inside for six months.
The rhythm is intentional. The pace is spacious.
The work is precise.
There is room to think.
Room to feel. Room to tell the truth.
Inside, you receive a container designed for depth, not volume:
12 private 60-minute sessions (biweekly)
Steady, anchored space for deep recalibration
Direct voice/text access between sessions when something real is moving
...because thresholds don’t wait for calendar invites
CliftonStrengths Full 34 assessment
Includes a dedicated 45-minute debrief to illuminate your natural patterns, blind spots, and leadership wiring
A mid-point recalibration
to refine what’s shifting and adjust as you evolve
This isn’t about consuming more information.
It’s about integrating change...at the level of identity, nervous system, and embodied authority.
Investment: $4,999 USD
6 months
Payment plans available. Application required.
There are a limited number of spaces each year because this work is personal and immersive.
Who This is For
This space is for women who:
Are outwardly capable but inwardly questioning.
Are used to being the strong one.
Feel the quiet nudge that something needs to shift, but are nervous about that
Are ready to lead themselves from the inside out.
If you're looking for motivational energy or quick confidence hacks, this isn't it.
If you're ready to return to your own authority...the steady, divine intelligence within you...this is the space for you.
Intimate capacity. Application only.
“Val has truly helped me see myself differently and get to the root causes behind some of my thinking or actions. My time with her is more valuable than with my therapist and helping me to realize who I really am and how to be that person.”
Amanda, CEO
If you’re still reading, your body likely already knows.
This isn't about becoming someone new.
It's about returning to yourself.
There are limited spaces each year because this work is personal and precise.
If you feel the threshold, apply.
We'll begin with a private conversation to ensure this space is the right fit for both of us.
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Always on, always needed — and delegation still feels like one more thing to manage
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Leading 5-50+ people but feeling like you're failing them and yourself - carrying the weight of every decision
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Saying yes to everything because "good leaders don't say no" - everything feels like a burning fire
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So tuned in to others that your own needs get buried.
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Getting Sunday scaries - dreading Monday morning because you know the cycle starts again
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Wanting to show your team you’re human, but feeling like you always have to "show up well" and "be on"
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Balancing pressure from above and below — you are stretched to meet everyone’s expectations
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Holding it all together on the outside — while doubting yourself on the inside
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Being seen as the expert — yet still fearing someone will discover you don’t have it all together